Friday, April 29, 2011

Emotional Love Story !!

My husband is Software Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady nature and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders.

Two years of courtship and now, five years into marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me loving him before, has now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness.

I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship and my feelings. I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for candy. My husband is my complete opposite; his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about LOVE.

One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce. 

"Why? " he asked, shocked.

"I am tired. There are no reasons for everything in the world !" I answered.

He kept silent the whole night, seemingly in deep thought. My feeling of disappointment only increased. Here was a man who was not able to even express his predicament, so what else could I expect from him?

And finally he asked me: "What can I do to change your mind?"

Somebody said it right... It's hard to change a person's personality, and I guess, I have started losing faith in him.

Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered: "Here is the question. If you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind.

Let's say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death. Will you do it for me?"

He said: "I will give you your answer tomorrow..." My hopes just sank by listening to his response.

I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting underneath a milk glass, on the dining table near the front door, that goes...

My dear, "I would not pick that flower for you, but... please allow me to explain the reasons further...

This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading.

"When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs, and you cry in front of the screen. I have to save my fingers so that I can help to restore the programs.

You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you.

You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city. I have to save my eyes to show you the way.

You always have the cramps whenever your "good friend" approaches every month. I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy.

You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure your boredom.

You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for your eyes. I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails and help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and the beautiful sand...and tell you the colour of flowers, just like the colour of the glow on your young face...

Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more than I do... I could not pick that flower yet, and die... "

My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting... And as I continue on reading... "Now, that you have finished reading my answer, and if you are satisfied, please open the front door for I am standing outside bringing your favorite bread and fresh milk...

I rushed to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching tightly with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread... Now I am very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does, and I have decided to leave the flower alone...

That's LIFE, and LOVE. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace and dullness.

Love shows up in all forms; even in very small and cheeky forms. It has never been a model. It could be the dullest and most boring form...

Flowers, and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands... AND THAT'S LIFE 

Thursday, April 28, 2011

Romantic Love Statements !

Love comes from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith.

~   Bible

In springtime, love is carried on the breeze. 
Watch out for flying passion or kisses whizzing by your head. 

~   Terri Guillemets

There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear.

~   Bible

I but know that I love you, whatever you are. 

~   Thomas Moore

Candle light, moon light, star light, the brightest glow is from love light. 

~   Grey Livingston

One is loved because one is loved. No reason is needed for loving. 

~   Paulo Coelho

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Emotional Romantic Feelings !!

I believe love is primarily a choice and only sometimes a feeling. 
If you want to feel love, choose to love and be patient.

~   Real Live Preacher

I don’t think anyone can DO anything that would make him worthy of love. 
Love is a gift and cannot be earned. It can only be given.

~   Real Live Preacher

You can’t love anyone until you understand that you can’t love everyone.

~   Real Live Preacher

Before I met my husband, I’d never fallen in love, 
though I’d stepped in it a few times.

~   Rita Rudner

Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.

~   Robert Frost

One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life : 
That word is love.

~   Sophocles

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Cute Love poem !!

You Hold The Key To My Heart

As we lie beneath the stars,
We wonder who we really are,
I wonder what you see in me,
We'll fall asleep beneath the trees.

Run your fingers through my hair, 
Show me that you truly care,
Day by day, and night by night,
When I'm with you I have no fright.

The day you told you loved me,
That's when I gave you the key,
To my heart, soul and mind,
I'm glad to know that you're all mine.

I want it to last forever,
To know that we'll always be together,
Feel no pain or sadness dear,
I want you to always be near.

In every hug and every kiss,
When I'm with you I feel true love exists.
Hold me close and never let me go,
Don't let me fall amidst the shadow.

For I am yours, forever it may be,
I am yours for all eternity.
I mean it all; all I've said,
Without you, a part of me is dead.

by Cami Surrett 

Monday, April 25, 2011

Wonderful Love Quotes !

Perhaps the feelings that we experience when we are in love represent a normal state. 
Being in love shows a person who he should be.

~   Anton Chekhov

To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead.

~   Bertrzand Russell

Love is not enough. It must be the foundation, the cornerstone - 
but not the complete structure.
It is much too pliable, too yielding.

~   Bette Davis 

Clarity of mind means clarity of passion, too; 
this is why a great and clear mind loves ardently and sees distinctly what it loves.

~   Blaise Pascal 

The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: 
if there is any reaction, both are transformed.

~   Carl Jung